I was in a destructive, abusive, violent unhealthy relationship, last sunday he was giving me silent phone calls on my house phone, came to my house monday and threatened to kill me and became violent, the thing is 2 years prior he sexually assaulted me and I never reported it to the police. I went to a rape clinic and the police are now involved as I have made 2 statements last week to them regarding both incidents. Any advice or anyone that has been through similar? thanksAny tips or advice on how to deal with..(uk)?
You need to find a friend to stay too cause with this type of guys is usually dangerous to stay by yourself and you need to report everything to the police. Do you have restrain orders in the U.K.?
Oh and you need to lock and secure all your doors and windows and take self-defense courses.Any tips or advice on how to deal with..(uk)?
sorry to hear you have had such a rough time. I too was in the same kind of relationship minus the sexual assault(even tho he threatened it) My biggest regret is not reporting anythin that happened, I have a little girl with this man, and it ended up in court but the courts didnt take any head of anythin he had done as i didnt make statements when it happened or any proof, It has taken over the last 3 years of my life)(not thru choice)just him makin life difficult and i am now determined to move on.. Just go with it, get a tape recorder and carry it everywhere, or even a camcorder, try and be as sly as him just try and get proof of everything no matter how insignificent you think it mite be, hopefully this will make you a stronger and better person for what you have gone thru, i know it has me. the very best of luck and email me if you need a chat x x
talk to the police that are involved ask to get a restraining order on this guy he can only show up so many times before he gets thrown the book. he seems the stalker type so make sure your always safe let your friends know this guy is causing you problems and they will up there guard over you like not letting u walk home alone and stuff like
its a shame u have to change you lifestyle because of him but still to stay safe and this is the way you need to do it to make sure this looser doesnt catch u alone untill he is tagged or convicted
good luck
I would try to escape to a family member or close friend for a while and as someone else suggested change your phone numbers.
Some companies allow you to change your number for free based on various conditions, worth checking out.
Maybe inform your manager if working too and see about getting time of work pehaps.
What a horrible thing to be going through. Can you get a restraining order out on him? I'm glad the police are now involved. Make sure you write everything down, such as those phone call, etc. This way you will have a record in case you ever need it. Good luck to you and stay safe.
Make A Diary Off Everything Hes Doing Too You.
Then Give It Too The Police As Evident.
Also Tell Them About The Treats And Phone Calls.
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Stay strong and change your phone number.
Can you get a restraining order?
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