Anythign online for help???What are some ways to stop fighting with ur partner?? Any tips..advice..things u can physially do??
Don't escalate things when it starts, just try remaining quiet and if she sees you quiet then she'll eventually stop and feel stupid. trust me on that oneWhat are some ways to stop fighting with ur partner?? Any tips..advice..things u can physially do??
leave.
sleep on couch
it depends on what youre fighting about. try and talk about it reasonably, and one at a time. try and talk. and you two are really fighting, as in yelling and just completly mad. try and get a punching bag, turn up the music really loud, and just let it have it. i will help, tust me. good luck.
write it down on paper... just keep writing. Otherwise try the * I understand that there is a problem, I realize it's something that we don't agree on, but I am not ready to discuss it. I will, but just not now... please it down and let me gather my thoughts. (then go and sleep on the couch) lol
Realize that a fight/argument takes two people. If yo refuse to participate in anything but a cordial and friendly dialogue, the fight won't take place. Period.
like your bingo partner? maybe let them win every once in a while
get independent
marriage
do something
Empower yourself, and smile. The only person you can change is you. Once your behavior changes, their behavior will have to change.
Physically. Stand up straight, shoulders back, hands on hips or arms crossed, maintain eye contact. Refuse to yell. Do not say anything while the other person is speaking. Do not say anything if the other person is yelling. Once they stop talking, you can talk. Watch your language. Use ';I'; statements. Don't accuse the other person of anything, especially if it is his/her fault.
It really works. Good luck.
If you love each other and are willing to do anything to stay together you should go see a counselor..I know it sounds generic but it can really help..If you do not have the money for a therapist then you should go to your local church usually they have free counseling...Try it what do you have to lose.? An honest, long, fulfilled relationship ?
Good luck!
If ur partner wants to fight then I think u should not response or answer(bit)him.Then u will find that he is not interested any more %26amp; he will stop doing that!
Ok! BEST OF LUCK!
stop doing things to tick him/her off
talk
good sex
WALK AWAY!
It would be a good idea to seek counselling although, if there is constant fighting, it probably is a sign there is not much hope for this relationship.
Hmm I'm not a fight or an argument lover person , I usually listen and wait for my gf to calm down ( cause I go nuts and crazy when I get angry and I find myself in a worse state lol when I argue, just gets outta control so I avoid getting into fights. )
When shes all said and done , just Accept all the stuff she says and take it easy lol while she is nagging and scolding , try to think of the happiest moments of her lol it works and it helped you to stay calm.
But Accepting each other is important, there are some things you cant change ( and probably these stuff are the plot of the arguments and fights ) .. Both side has to know tht keep on arguing will disincline one and other..
keep your mouth shut .....10 pts for best answer :))
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