About half of the clothes I wear are actually women's, although they're subtle and most people don't notice. (Jeans, socks, underwear.) I'm hoping to go full time in January as female. Any advice or tips for what to expect or what ot keep in mind?Transgendered Q...Any advice/tips for going fulltime?
Throwing my two cents in from seeing one of my friends stumble over her full time transition:
Don't go backwards. Some days she would show up to the college dressed to the full extent of womanhood, then the next she would be a scruffy plaid shirt wearing mess. Nothing wrong with a scruffy plaid shirt on a lady, but her entire demeanor screamed ';I submit to the pressure';. Don't show defeat, it will only make it about a thousand times harder on you.
Don't go overboard. Not every woman wears skirts, fancy shirts, and extensive make up every single day. Dress like the other women in your environment, but keep your style your own.... (does that make sense?).
Keep you chin up, every day is an achievement. You are being more true to yourself than many people ever dream of being.
In the event of harassment, report it to the proper people. Don't let people poison your workspace with hatred. You don't deserve that.
Best wishes for you in the new year!Transgendered Q...Any advice/tips for going fulltime?
Are you a transsexual or are you just crossdressing?
It is almost impossible to be 100% stealth
There is always someone who will out you at one point in your life do not let it bother you, be sure to do your make up nicely also remember that your Adams apple is a dead give away, so try to hide it as much as possible.
Yay~! *Hugs* n_n I'm FtM transsexual, But I've been wearing all guys clothes for almos' 3 years now. One thing I was surprised of, was that even though others still perceived me as a girl, I didn't feel odd not to have breasts, since I bound, I was flat chested. Like I thought I would feel weird because people would see me as ';a girl with no breasts'; but I actually felt more comfortable. Dressing male it's given me so much confidence. I dunno if I can give you any good advice... Other than it feels good to be yourself :-}
Are you transitioning on the job?
If so be sure to have all the issues ironed out before hand and get your legal name change done.
edit: Get more tips here:
http://www.TrueSelves.com For those 35 and under.
http://www.Susans.org All ages. Click ';forums';, then ';transsexual talk';.
Do what feels right for you. Find the style that makes you feel good about you, after all this is about you discovering the real person inside. Be proud of who you are.
We have all been clocked at some point in out transition, don't let it get you down.
Best of luck.
do what you believe in. live your life. who cares what others think. if you care about what they say or think you are only discouraging yourself. their words wont matter unless you make them matter. just go for it! though i do not know you i support you allll the way =)
hope this helps.
Just be true to yourself and enjoy your life. I can't say anything more than that. Also, don't do anything risky and have unprotected sex. You have to respect yourself too and look out for your best interests. I wish you luck.
Watch movie for tips like
To Wong Foo Thanks for Everything, Julie Newmar with Patrick Swayze
Good movie Patrick Swayze is Hot
Tit jeans %26amp; Farjerken open neck, short capery, actractive colour ,skin less socks pice sprey maskara
just try not be nervous, and try to blend in. remember your voice and mannerisms give you away more than clothes and makeup. anyway, just be yourself.
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